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Creating a Butterfly Garden with Kids

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A Kid-Friendly Pollinator Garden in Virginia Zone 7b
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Starting a butterfly garden is a wonderful way to connect your kids with nature while creating a habitat for these beautiful pollinators. In Charlottesville’s Zone 7b, families can enjoy year-round gardening opportunities, making it the perfect area to cultivate a butterfly-friendly space. By focusing on native plants and designing a garden that supports butterflies through every stage of their life cycle, you can inspire your children to care for the environment and enjoy the magic of nature.

Why Virginia’s Native Plants Matter

Native plants provide the food, shelter, and breeding spaces that pollinators like butterflies need to thrive. For instance, milkweed is the sole host plant for monarch butterfly caterpillars, while coneflowers offer nectar to adult butterflies. Native plants also require less water and maintenance than non-native species.

Did you know that more than 100 U.S. grown crops rely on pollinators? Honey bees are America’s primary commercial pollinator, although there are over 4,000 types of bees in the United States. Bees, butterflies and moths in your own home garden help with flowers and your strawberries and tomatoes too!

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If you need more inspiration to grow native plans, our publisher Jen loves Virginia’s amazing Flora Project. Not only do the book and app include beautiful illustrations by Charlottesville artist Lara Call Gastinger, but they also offer detailed guidance on native plants and butterfly gardening. In both the app and the reference book you’ll find everything you need to great a thriving butterfly habit, including:

  • Information on 3,164 species, including 1,400 original illustrations
  • Habitat details
  • Plant keys
  • An easy-to-use format that makes planning and maintaining your butterfly garden a breeze

Supporting All Life Stages

A butterfly garden isn’t just about beautiful blooms. It’s also about creating a habitat that supports every stage of a butterfly’s life. Here are some essentials to include:

yellow, black and white monarch caterpillarcrawling on a crown flower plant.
  • Host Plants: Caterpillars need specific plants to feed on. Monarchs, for example, rely on milkweed, while black swallowtail caterpillars prefer dill, fennel, and parsley. Plant these in dedicated spots where kids can observe caterpillars up close.
  • Nectar Plants: Adult butterflies need nectar-rich flowers. Include a variety of native blooms, such as bee balm, purple coneflower, and blazing star, to attract butterflies of all kinds.
  • Shelter: Butterflies need places to rest and hide from predators. Bushes like spicebush or small trees like redbuds provide excellent cover.
  • Puddling Stations: Butterflies often gather at shallow water sources to drink and absorb nutrients. Create a “puddling station” by filling a shallow dish with sand, adding water, and placing it in a sunny spot.

For a butterfly garden in Central Virginia growing zone 7b, you’ll also want to mix plans that grow in different seasons. This ensures a continuous food supply for butterflies and other pollinators throughout the year. Early bloomers like Virginia bluebells provide nectar in spring. Goldenrod and asters keep your garden vibrant and useful well into fall!

Kid-Friendly Gardening Activities

Getting kids involved in the creation of a butterfly garden is not only educational but also fun! Start by visiting a local garden center to pick out plants together, or attend a native plant sale in Charlottesville. Each April Piedmont Master Gardeners hosts a sale as does Monticello Center for Plants. When planting, let your children dig, water, and even decorate the garden with painted rocks or small signs identifying the plants.

Encourage your kids to keep a butterfly journal, noting which species visit the garden and what they observe. You can also introduce them to the lifecycle of butterflies by collecting eggs or caterpillars (ethically, without disrupting wild populations) and raising them in a small enclosure to release later.

Joyful mother and son enjoying watering flowers in garden

Listen In: Sage Mother Podcast

Our Publisher Jen had the joy of joining the Sage Mother Podcast for a heartfelt conversation about some of her favorite topics—gardening with kids, raising backyard chickens, and nurturing a love of the outdoors. She talked with Andrea and Kristin about simple ways families can slow down and reconnect through nature, engaging all five senses and savoring the everyday magic found right outside our doors.

Tune in here to listen: Sage Mother Podcast – Episode with Jennifer Bryerton  

It’s a conversation full of encouragement for parents who want to cultivate wonder, togetherness, and a little more dirt under their fingernails.

Winter Garden Preparations

While butterflies are less active in winter, your garden can still support them. Leave dried flower stalks and plant debris in place, as many butterflies overwinter in these hidden spots. Explain to your kids why the “messy” parts of the garden are important for wildlife.

Winter is also a great time to plan for the upcoming season. Kids can help sketch new ideas for the butterfly garden, order seeds, and learn about different butterfly and bee species that might visit your yard.

Close-Up Of Butterfly On Hand, Childs hand next to parent hand

Sustainability Tips for Your Virginia Pollinator Garden

To ensure your butterfly garden is safe for both butterflies and kids, avoid using pesticides and herbicides. Opt for organic gardening methods, such as hand-picking pests and using natural compost to enrich the soil. Native plants are naturally resistant to many pests, reducing the need for chemical treatments.

By creating a butterfly garden in your yard, you’ll provide a haven for these important pollinators while giving your family a hands-on way to engage with nature. Watching caterpillars transform into butterflies is a magical experience that your kids will remember for years to come. So grab your gardening gloves and get started on this family-friendly project!

Virginia Native Plants for Butterfly Gardens in Zone 7b

Here’s a list of the best Virginia native plants for butterfly gardens in Zone 7b. These plants provide essential support to butterflies at every stage of their life cycle, from caterpillar host plants to nectar sources. They are well-adapted to local conditions and will thrive with minimal maintenance.

Host Plants for Caterpillars

These plants provide food for caterpillars, which are essential for completing the butterfly lifecycle.

  1. Milkweed (Asclepias spp.)
    • Essential for monarch caterpillars.
    • Varieties: Common Milkweed (Asclepias syriaca), Swamp Milkweed (Asclepias incarnata), and Butterfly Weed (Asclepias tuberosa).
  2. Spicebush (Lindera benzoin)
    • Host plant for spicebush swallowtail caterpillars.
    • A shrub that also provides shelter.
  3. Pawpaw (Asimina triloba)
    • Host plant for zebra swallowtail caterpillars.
    • Produces edible fruit for humans and wildlife.
  4. Black Cherry (Prunus serotina)
    • Host plant for tiger swallowtail and red-spotted purple caterpillars.
    • A small tree that also supports other pollinators.
  5. Golden Alexander (Zizia aurea)
    • Host plant for black swallowtail caterpillars.
    • Yellow blooms in spring attract additional pollinators.

Nectar Plants for Adult Butterflies

These plants provide food and attract a variety of butterfly species.

  1. Purple Coneflower (Echinacea purpurea)
    • Long-lasting summer blooms.
    • A favorite for adult butterflies and other pollinators.
  2. Bee Balm (Monarda didyma)
    • Vibrant red or purple blooms in summer.
    • Attracts swallowtails, skippers, and hummingbirds.
  3. Blazing Star (Liatris spicata)
    • Spiky purple flowers that bloom in late summer.
    • Excellent nectar source for migrating monarchs.
  4. Asters (Symphyotrichum spp.)
    • Late-season bloomers that provide nectar into the fall.
    • Varieties: New England Aster (Symphyotrichum novae-angliae) and Heath Aster (Symphyotrichum ericoides).
  5. Goldenrod (Solidago spp.)
    • Late-summer to fall blooms.
    • Essential for butterflies preparing for migration, including monarchs.
  6. Black-Eyed Susan (Rudbeckia hirta)
    • Bright yellow flowers from summer to fall.
    • A favorite for many pollinators, including butterflies.
  7. Joe-Pye Weed (Eutrochium purpureum)
    • Tall plants with pink to purple blooms in late summer.
    • Attracts large butterflies like swallowtails and monarchs.
  8. Wild Bergamot (Monarda fistulosa)
    • Pale purple blooms in summer.
    • Provides abundant nectar for butterflies and bees.

Additional Plants Your Virginia Pollinators Will Love

These plants contribute to the overall health and diversity of your butterfly garden.

  • Virginia Bluebells (Mertensia virginica)
    • Early spring nectar source for butterflies.
  • New Jersey Tea (Ceanothus americanus)
    • Host plant for several butterfly species and a nectar source.
  • Switchgrass (Panicum virgatum)
    • Provides cover and habitat for butterflies and other wildlife.

Bumble’s Boredom Busters

Want to encourage your kids to spend more time out in the garden? Check out our library of printable activity sheets to find nature-themed scavenger hunts that the whole family will enjoy.

Plus, find seasonal activity sheets for all ages, including word searches, crosswords, silly jokes, riddles, trivia, and more. It’s just what you need for screen-free fun on days when you can’t get outside!

Fun summer themes activity pages for kids

Creating a Year-Round Habitat for Bees & Butterflies in Virginia

By combining these plants, you can provide:

  • Early blooms (Virginia bluebells, golden Alexanders) for spring butterflies.
  • Continuous nectar sources through summer (milkweed, coneflowers, bee balm).
  • Late-season sustenance (goldenrod, asters) for fall migrations.

This mix of host and nectar plants will ensure a vibrant, thriving butterfly garden in Virginia’s Zone 7b that supports local ecosystems and delights your family year-round! Extra fun, add some backyard chickens to your garden with a beautiful safe coop!

Visit Charlottesville’s Botanical Garden for more garden inspiration. Then, get your family outside to enjoy the beautiful natural world around Charlottesville! Explore family-friendly hikes near Charlottesville or take a scenic drive to the Shenandoah Valley.

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